hmmm.... Today basically I was so lazy to do anything. But in the end i still dragged myself to attend the badminton session that I usually have with the gang. Wanted to go for a jog subsqently however, we chatted till 7pm. Better go home as mum would had prepared dinner. If not she would definitly nag at me later.
Haha.. I think its just an excuse for me to not to go jogging that is all. How many a times that I know that she would nag but I would just go n do it. Mwahaha..
We were discussing about relationships today and it made me realised that maybe breakup due to a 3rd party isn't that bad afterall. No doubt that its not a good feeling for the person who was being cheated. However if we look at it from another point of view?
The other party may feel that the other person other then you is a better choice to be with for the rest of his/her life. Hence that person decided to give up and not to prolong the "suffering" that the both of you may face if it drags on. In addition, this relationship hence may not result in a happy ending or a happy journey in the end. By breaking up, the other party is giving you another chance in looking for the better one or the more suitable one. The 3rd party presence just proves that the both of you may not be as happy as you think you would be if you are together. This also goes to shows that the other person may be able to lead a better life and you would have a chance in getting a more bliss life.
It sound logical right? But when it happens on you, I do not think that I would be able to accept things as mentioned above. Lets say that I am the person who is being äbandoned. I would feel so miserable and keep wondering whats wrong with me that my partner preferes another person. The level of confidence would hence be lowered to the lowest point.
If I am the 3rd party, I would wonder if my partner would react the same way if another more suitable gal comes along. Hence there would be the lack of security. Yes, one may say that you have to be confident of yourself. But I think there is not longer trust in it. Will it work out?
Seriously I don't think that i would want something like this to happen to me. I also hoped that i would never be in either one of these positions as mentioned above.
