He proposed on 11 May 2007.

This is the day which I had been waiting for. Although we had discussed about getting married, he did not really actually proposed. We viewed houses, seek quotation for ROM in various hotels but I just feel that something was still missing. I know that doing such things with the other party is only when we are serious with each other. I also know that he would not ask me to do such things together with him if he w asn't serious with me. But I just want to know that he really really really really meant it. He proposed when we were in KL over the weekend.

When we initially book the trip, I wondered if he intends to propose over in KL. However, with some interrogation, I understand that he did not have such intention. When I mentioned that I would be away for the weekend, my colleagues speculated that he would propose. I told them that it would not be the case as I had questioned him on when would he propose. He was very determined not to let me know and I had to twist and turn the questions to get the answers that I wanted. Hence I did not suspect a single thing.

He had kept the ring in his bermudas pocket the entire bus journey there. He knew that I would sit inside and had even placed the ring in the other pocket so that I would not find out! When we reached the hotel, he asked me to go into the toliet. Haha, of course naturally I asked him why. He refused to tell me and even told me to go in. I relented and went into the toliet, but I already suspected that he wanted to propose. At that point I was full of anticipation as I wanted to know what kind of proposal he was going to present me with.

When he was ready, he led me out to the room. I saw the bed covered with rose petals and 3 stalk of white roses. I asked why he did so, his reply was he was going down on his knees. His whole body was shaking! When he knee down in fornt of me, he brought out the ring that he had kept in his pocket. I was in a state of shock at that moment as I did not expect him to purchase the ring. We had agreed that we would go and purchase it together as we do not know my ring size. However, he know my ring size when we purchased the wedding band. Yes, we purchased the wedding band already. Hiaz.

The Roses with the Ring

The Ring

Everything is not going in order, but I am not complaining. I am happy with what I have right now. The order is not that important to me The first thing that came to my mind was to hug him first. I wanted to calm him down before I answer whether I would accept his proposal. After he calmed down, I told him yes. YES I WOULD MARRY HIM.I did not expect him to do so much for me. I know that it must have taken him a lot of guts to knee down in fornt of me and ask me to marry him. Knowing that he had spent so much time at the jeweller to choose the one ring for me melted my heart. Thanks dear for everything!

He would not allow me to wear the ring out in KL as he was worried that its not safe. Hence he restricted me to wear the ring only in the room or when we are back in Singapore. Till now I am trying to remember that I had agreed to the proposal. My statues has not change but will change soon. All these are still sinking into my thick skull. I wonder how long would I need to absorb all these.

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